“To love at all is to be vulnerable.
Love anything and your heart will
be wrung
and possibly broken.
If you want to make sure of keeping it
intact
you must give it to no one,
not even an animal.
Wrap it carefully
round with hobbies
and little luxuries;
avoid all entanglements.
Lock
it up safe in the casket
or coffin of your selfishness.
But in that
casket,
safe, dark, motionless, airless,
it will change.
It will not be
broken;
it will become unbreakable,
impenetrable, irredeemable.
To love
is to be vulnerable.”
- C.S. Lewis
(The Four Loves)